Sometimes, the journey to healing isn’t linear. It comes in starts and stops, quiet moments of resistance followed by slow shifts in readiness. And for families trying to help a struggling teen, the waiting can feel endless and heartbreaking. But patience, presence, and support make all the difference.
Gila*, a 14 year-old girl, once a bright and engaged student, began to unravel emotionally, socially, and academically. Her schoolwork became too much to manage, and soon she started skipping classes, staying home, and spending time with a group that raised concerns. Alarmed by the changes, Gila’s mother, Sari*, reached out to Amudim.
Sari wasn’t sure what to do next. She felt overwhelmed, worried, and completely alone in navigating her daughter’s pain. Our case manager took a full history, and she and Sari discussed Gila’s recent behavior, her interests, her sense of safety and any possible outlets for her stress.
Encouragingly, Gila had recently told her mother she was open to therapy, but Sari didn’t know where to start. The case manager compiled a list of referrals for therapists who could meet Gila where she was emotionally. But when Sari brought them to her daughter, Gila pulled back. She said she no longer needed help.
We have seen this happen. The moment of readiness can fade, especially in teens navigating instability. Our case manager continued supporting Sari, who was herself exhausted by the emotional toll at home. We connected her with a support group, giving her space to process her own experience and regain strength.
We continued regular check-ins with Sari, offering validation and an open ear. And recently, the tide began to turn. Gila once again expressed interest in speaking to someone. Because the referrals were ready and waiting, Sari quickly scheduled an intake.
Now, Gila has attended three sessions and is showing up consistently. It’s early, but it’s a beginning. And as this mother-daughter journey continues, Amudim will remain by their side, helping them navigate whatever comes next.
If you or someone you love is struggling, please don’t hesitate to reach out. Amudim is a phone call away and here to help.
*Names and details have been changed to protect privacy.
Each week, Amudim fields calls covering a wide range of crises and addressing various human concerns, including addiction, depression, abuse, health and domestic emergencies and many others. We track the calls and breakdown of issues for many reasons, foremost of which is to consistently improve and strengthen our knowledge and ability to address community’s needs.