Plan a Purim that feels good during and after.
That conversation you're avoiding...
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We created this kit to help you identify your boundaries, build a plan simple enough to stick with, and give you the tools to start the conversation.
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Friend & Safety Conversations
This is for anyone who wants to feel less alone on Purim – or who wants to make sure someone else does.
If you’re heading into something that feels uncertain, worried about someone you love, or you already know you’ll do better with a plan, this is for you.
Inside, you’ll find tools to set up a Safety Buddy, show up as a safe person, stay sober if that’s your plan, and ask for support if you need it.
Talking to Your Kids
Kids Ages 5–10
Prepare them for what they might see, and what to do if something feels off.
Kids Ages 11–14
Tools for offers, pressure, and staying safe in rooms with alcohol.
Teens Ages 15–18
Honest conversation tools: choice, pressure, rides, and safety planning.
Getting Aligned with Your Spouse
Get on the same page about expectations, anxiety, and what happens if plans change.
This guide is here to help you identify your boundaries, build a plan, and give you the tools to start the conversation